7 Songs for Every Step of Your Relationship

…from cuffing to crying

By Kiara Taylor

Do you actually like them?

“I’m Not in Love” by Kelsey Lu

You’ve been in a “situationship” with this person for a while, but unsure whether or not you want to make it official. This song navigates the indecisive thoughts of someone who knows they’re interested, but in denial over the intensity of their feelings. Kelsey Lu’s atmospheric remake of 10cc's 1975 hit is even more twinkly than the original. Not to mention, this song has some serious Euphoria vibes.

2. Ok, you’re in love.

“Golden Hour” by Kasey Musgraves

From stargazing on the Arts Quad to sharing Trillium burritos between classes, you and bae are feeling a strong connection. This song exudes the floaty-feeling of falling in love.

3. Sexy time, but classy

“Feel Like Makin’ Love” by Roberta Flack

You’re feeling a little frisky, but not sure how to get things started. This *classic* is the perfect song to set the mood. Play this track (preferably on vinyl) and watch the sparks fly.

4. Things begin to shift…

“Are You in Love? by James Blake

The honeymoon phase is over, and you know something’s up. You’re beginning to question everything your so-called significant other does: why didn’t they like your instagram post? Why aren’t they returning your calls? Why didn’t you get a good morning text? It’s time to reevaluate your relationship, beginning with why you got into it in the first place.

5. Cry it out

“Futile Devices (Doveman Remix)” by Sufjan Stevens

Does Cornell Health treat broken hearts? Beware: this song may give you Call Me By Your Name flashbacks...

6. Shake it off.

“Alaska” by Maggie Rogers

So...things didn’t work out. You’ve gone back and forth, questioning whether you made the wrong decision. After many late night ice cream sessions with your besties, you know you’ve made the right one. This song captures the essence of finding yourself after an emotionally taxing break up. By the end of it, you’re not only content with your choice, but yourself, too.

7. Queen Mode

“Money Good” by Megan Thee Stallion

After all is said and done, you must appreciate how dope you are for getting through all of this. Who better to guide you to this realization than Thee Stallion herself?